31.1.12

Honesty from a business woman

January is my month off. After a fall full of weddings, travel and family photos, I take January as a chance to catch my breath and rest. Sure, I answer e-mails at a leisurely pace and do a couple of shoots here or there, but it is a time to reflect and collect myself for the year ahead.

All the Arnold cousins together

This past month, I started to think that I really didn't want to be a photographer anymore. Of course, I love taking photographs, meeting new people and capturing timeless images, but the business of photography was taking it's toll on my enthusiasm. I kept telling myself to buck up and find the initiative to pull myself up by my boot straps and get back to work. Where else could I find a job where I decided my own hours/pay/vacation time? The month is coming to a close and I am getting excited about starting back and stepping behind the lens again, but before I do, I would like to share some honest thoughts from where I sit.

K. Barber Photography is a business, not simply an artistic venture. It would be a whole heck of a lot easier if I simply did what I do for the love of art and earned a little extra pocket change on the side. But I have bills to pay, taxes to report and expenses to keep my business functioning. Sometimes the business side of things does suck out some of the artistic fun, but it is a necessary part of the gig. Most of my time is not spent behind the lens enjoying the great outdoors and a beautiful family. The majority of my time is spent sitting at the computer writing e-mails, editing images, ordering prints, blogging, promoting my business and the list goes on and on.
A shot from my brother and sister-in-law's maternity shoot.

My first year in business felt like a clawing match to keep myself in the public eye for natural light portraiture. There are many talented people in this area who do what I do. Many, many, MANY people in central Florida. As a newbie photog, it was intimidating to establish my prices, what that includes, if I would offer prints or simply include a CD of images. Do I have my clients sign model releases? How do I advertise without loosing all of my profits? There were many questions and hardly any answers. In this business, people are reluctant to share their tips of the trade. Along the way, I stopped looking at what everyone else was doing and began thinking about what I wanted to do. What shape should by business take? What branding would be effective? If I was my client, what services would I want to receive and what would be fair to charge for them? It has been a great time of discovery and I am sure as I continue on this business venture I will learn a lot more.

This new year, my goal is to treat my business like a job and not an all consuming force that eats every moment of my spare time. As a new business owner, there are a LOT of things to learn and do to be competitive and profitable. Because of this, most of my first year in business was spent thinking, planning and doing things for my business. Now that we are further along on that process, I can put some boundaries on this thing (Example: business hours, work hours, vacation time).

And with addition of 2 extra people in the house, I have to put some boundaries on this sucker or else everything will fall apart!

19.1.12

Pallet Deconstruction

Last night, Craig attempted to deconstruct pallets with the tools we have.


Let me backtrack. This weekend we are hosting an outdoor shower for my brother and sister-in-law. I love to entertain, so I am really looking forward to it. It has allowed me to use lots of the ideas I have found on Pinterest, so I am a happy girl. Ben and Drew would best be described as hipsters. Not completely, but that is the best category they fit into. Have you ever seen Portlandia? That would give you a caricature sketch of them. They aren't that extreme, but anything vintage, retro and alternative and they are in. It has been fun to meld their style with mine and thus the pallets come in. (And you better believe I will be sharing MANY detailed pictures from their shower! I have made almost all the decorations, so I will be ready to brag.)


Pallets are very "in" in home decor and entertaining. They are also very vintage and functional for seating. While running for the first time after the marathon, we discovered five pallets being discarded. Score! Craig tied them to the top of our car and brought them back to the house. I really wish I had taken a picture of it, but alas! I didn't. Enjoy this silly picture of the kids looking at the patio taken over with pallets instead!


On our patio, because of the rain, Craig began to deconstruct the pallets with a jig saw (which broke), a hacksaw (which also broke), a crow bar and hammer (and yep, the hammer broke). It was a very frustrating process for him since we really don't have the tools needed for this kind of project. I admire his determination as he went to the store to purchase another hammer and continue the daunting task of deconstructing all of those pallets. And do you know what is amazing? He didn't complain once about how we don't have any tools! He didn't take this opportunity to whine about the fact that as a homeowner, he didn't have the basic instruments needed to complete simple household tasks. Instead, he just kept on working, little by little, until it was too late to be hammering. That is my husband. I admire his determination and attitude through the whole evening last night.


Thanks, Craig for working so hard to make my Pinterest visions a reality! I'll write another post about what was actually made with these pallets, when the shower is over.

12.1.12

Disney Marathon Take-Away

Having completed my first marathon this weekend, I thought it would be fitting to share what I learned (if  you want to read about the marathon, click here). Mostly, this post is for me as a reminder to firmly, but kindly, tell Karen she is out of her mind whenever she tries to talk me into another one (hehehe!), but it is also a way to publicly say thank you to several people who helped me along the way.

Karen and I at the Disney Marathon Expo the day before the run.

Here are the things I am taking away from this experience.
1. I can accomplish something I think is unattainable. If you know me in real life, and talked with me any time during the training process, you know that I did not think I could do it. Nope. Not me. I loathed the training! Mostly because I had a mental block about this unsurmountable task that faced me on January 8th, 2012. But despite my injuries, I completed 26.2 miles. Am I proud of how long it took? No, but I could not be happier that I accomplished something that was so huge to me. I really didn't think I would be able to finish leading up the race, but when I started, I knew I would talk across that finish line and wear a medal for it. I am extremely proud of myself and feel confident about my abilities. I'm going to need this confidence as we complete this adoption in the next couple of years.

2.  I am most proud of the fact that I honored my family by not seriously injuring myself AND completing the marathon. Because of my shin splints, knee injury and back spasms, we really didn't know how long I would actually be able to run. I ran as long as I could, knowing that I had many more miles ahead of me and then I simply walked the rest. The time didn't matter to me, because I knew that the day after the race I would be responsible for my family. But I am so proud of myself for finishing!

3.  Karen is a rock star, and I am lucky to have such a strong friend. Having trained at intervals of 4 minutes running/1 minute walking, at the actual race, Karen ran straight through, taking a stretch break in the line to take pictures with all the Disney characters only. She is super hardcore, because she trained in Maryland, where it was snowing in October and bitterly freezing for most of her runs. And there were hills, people! If all that wasn't enough, she came to Florida on antibiotics for bronchitis! I always knew she had a lot strength, but this adventure really stood out as a testament to her amazing abilities and her mental fortitude. And she is planning on doing more marathons! But don't worry. She is also a funner like me!



4. I am truly blessed with many people who love and care for me dearly. My husband would encourage me and watch our kids while I ran and pamper me when I injured myself. My brother and sister-in-law gave me advice, gear and a training schedule to help me accomplish this goal. My friend, Sabes warned me of the injuries that could happen after the race from personal experience. And of course, I had The Running Club (aka Karen), giving me a swift kick in the pants when I was slacking on my training. I was surrounded by people who encouraged and supported me through this. Thank you to all of you!

5.  I don't hate running! After the race was completed, I said I would NEVER do a marathon again. As the soreness wears off, I now see the appeal of racing and I am thinking about another race this year. Don't worry! That was my only marathon until my kids are out of the house! But a 1/2 marathon is totally attainable. And Craig might just join me, but I think I have a little more convincing to do. For now, we are both running together once a week with the kids in the jogging stroller and running separately as well. And I am going back to Zumba, because, boy! have I missed it. And Karen will totally rub this in my face! She told me this would happen, and she is right. I'm sure we will race together again and this time, I am going to keep up with her!

Here are some pictures of people I want to thank.
Thank you, Karen for talking me into this crazy adventure. I wouldn't have loved to hate it with anyone else!

Thank you, Craig for supporting me and Karen through this crazy idea! I truly couldn't have done it without you.
Thank you, Asher for being my biggest fan!
Thank you, Alethea for your hugs and kisses after a long run!
Thank you, Ben and Drew for all your advice, training and gear! You are the best running coaches a girl who doesn't run could have!

5.1.12

Adoption Fundraiser #1

Happy 2012!!! 

We have hit the ground running here. Literally! This weekend I run my first ever marathon. I am honestly still in denial that it is THIS weekend with my back problems this week, but don't worry. I am going to take it easy and stop if pain sets in while trying to accomplish this huge goal! My best friend, Karen is flying in tomorrow and we are headed to Disney on Saturday to pick up our packets for the weekend. It is going to be exciting and you better believe there will be a blog post about this crazy adventure!

Thank you to everyone who has donated money to our Ugandan adoption fund!!! So far, you all have donated $205!!! We are elated by your generosity!!! Thank you for blessing our family! We are one step closer to reaching our fundraising goal to begin our home study and dossier! Thanks to you, we only need to raise $3,395 now. Hooray! (If you missed it, read about our adoption here.)


And now it is time to begin our first fundraiser with a YARD SALE! Yep. We are doing the old fashion sell-all-of-your-junk-because-it-is-someone-else's-treasure thing. But we need your help!

Here are the ways you can help:

1. Could you look around your house and do some post-holiday purging? Would you be willing to donate unused furniture, toys, baby/kid stuff, old bikes, or any other items you aren't using to us? All of the items will be sold at the yard sale to add to our adoption fund. Whatever doesn't sell will be donated to a charity.

2. Would you be willing to help price and sort items? I am looking for a couple of people who would be willing to help us go through the donated items and price them the weeks leading up to the sale. No previous experience required (especially because I have NEVER held my own yard sale!)!

3. Are you available to help work the yard sale? We need people to help manage, what we hope, is a HUGE yard sale. Talk to the people coming, sell items, help put things in people's cars after they purchase, etc. Since we have 2 little kids, we would love extra adults to help us on the day of the sale.

And when is this amazing yard sale taking place, you ask?

Barber Adoption Fundraiser Yard Sale
Saturday, February 25th
8AM-2PM


 And most importantly, we need your prayers. This is a large undertaking to pursue international adoption and to add two more family members to our family. We need our friends, family and even strangers to support us through prayer. Thanks for being in our corner!